I spent decades searching for validation and my identity ever since I was molested at 14. I ran to pornography and that led me to an endless empty void that could never be filled. Little did I realize that this self medicating had turned into an addiction and that I was recklessly destroying my life. God thumped me on the chest and opened my eyes to the fact that I needed to shed the weight of this addiction. That is what led me into going through The Transformation. Now I am no longer bound to a lifestyle of passivity and destruction. I live a lifestyle of freedom from my chains and bondage and am an ever present follower of Jesus, Husband and Father.